This is my reply on Aggie Wants to Know Question 1.

What are the things you want them to know about life after the wedding?

This actually took me a lot of time thinking what I learned (and continue learning for) about life after the wedding. The stories I have with my hubby is really weird. No long preparation for wedding (although we know that we want each other for a lifetime, I just don’t know how it could happen because of my faith.)

Anyhow, we just celebrated our 6th year wedding anniversary last month. And I would say that he’s still the one I will marry if I need to rewind things in my life. He’s not perfect, but he perfectly matched with my imperfections. Despite I need to look for a best fat burners, he never insisted or mention than I need it *lol*

*If both parties believe and fears God, everything can be work out. Like what they said make God the center of your marriage. Although hubby doesn’t have the same faith with me, I’m thankful that he doesn’t object what I believe. And he is helping me to bring Lianne up on the faith that I have. That’s one of my secret wish that he will share faith with us too.

*That no matter how big disagreements you have.. or how wrong your husband is.. always respect. It takes a lot of effort, but remembering the principle about headship in the bible will help.

*Don’t expect husband to be mind reader. Men in general are not created like women who tend to read minds. So if you have something in your mind.. you have to speak it out.

*That married life involves a lot of decision making. But this time to get used of making decision together with your partner. And this is a big adjustment for me at first because I’m used making decision quickly that sometimes I forgot to consult my hubby first.

*To always remember that you made a vow to God to be with that person that no matter how difficult you’re going through together, you have to stick with your partner.. till death.

*Always talk (and don’t nag lol). My hubby hates me when I tell things ng paulit-ulit. So I learned my way.. remind once and twice and then stop. lol Learn when to stop.

*Never get tired of supporting each other. You will hear a lot of things negatively and advices from other people, but always remember that your husband is part of you now, one flesh. If something wrong about him, it will not help to put more fire of negative things on it.. instead your obligation now is to pay respect to your husband by telling his positive side.

*Learn to accept that you married a man that is not perfect. So include loving that imperfection.